Janice's Lovers
Your mother, Janice, had a number of customers with whom she "fell in love". Bob
Russell was the one restaurant customer I knew she had dated once. She told me
that she had a date with him on one occasion and tricked me into taking her back
to Lexington Commons to Bob's apartment. He wasn't home and later told me that
he did not have a date with Janice. We ended up at my apartment waiting for him
to return. I knew that Bob didn't have any great attraction to Janice, but I was
attracted to her body, which she gave away readily.
We know that your mother frequently picked up men she met as a waitress. Rather
than finishing school and getting a legitimate job, her goal was to marry a rich guy.
Of course, she was already married, but who would know?
Let us try to calculate how many such men she slept with in her quest to entrap
"Mr. Right". Let us assume that 80% of guys she slept with were smart enough to
use a condom when having sex with a 'strange' woman who had just picked them
up. This would mean that only 20% of her sex partners could have become fathers.
If she got pregnant when she was ovulating and that was about 10% of the month,
then add another 10% for sperm living 3 days and we can extrapolate 3 babies by 3
different guys to 15 guys she slept with who didn't have condoms and multiply that
by 5 to obtain an estimate of 75 guys total she slept with. 60 guys with condoms,
15 without condoms and 3 who got her pregnant. We don't know how many, if
only half of the men used condoms, then she only slept with 30 men. How was she
able to sleep with all of these men and "look herself in the mirror in the morning"?
We know that her mother had four children by 3 or 4 men. This set her an
example.
In June 2008, Janice spoke of Timmy Peter's dad dying as if his dad was not the
father of Shila's other children. I had heard before that her children were by
different fathers but don't know any details. We also know that Janice's magic
words were "But I loved that man." Bud Simms didn't marry her so she persisted
with falling in love with other men. Steven Vales gave her $300 for an abortion
which was not a good sign that he was about to propose marriage. I tried to get her
to sign the standard papers whereby I would provide the statutory amount of child
support and have normal paternal visitation rights. She wouldn't sign and told me
that either I must keep sleeping with her or I wouldn't get to see Janine. I call
Dana my "blackmail baby".
She was what was called "an easy lay" who was willing to go to bed with a man on
the first date. She admitted to me that she got pregnant by Steven Vales (Vails? I
have never been able to get anyone to give me the spelling and I suspect that they
might not even know it.) the first time she slept with him. That was Shawna's dad.
She was willing to go to bed with me when it wasn't really even a date with me but
a falsified "date with Bob Russell". I slept with her that first night, but didn't have
sex until a later occasion. But, we are now told, it was quite okay for her to lie
about having a date with Bob Russell because she "was in love with Don." I started
to ask her if it wasn't embarassing that Bob had not shown up. She completed my
sentence as if I was asking her "isn't it embarassing that your breasts are small."
Like the other many men that Janice seduced and tried to get pregnant by, I
hardly knew her nor did she know me very well. For her to say that she was in love
with a man she barely knew lacks credibility.
Cocaine use: A common but untrue belief is that the smoking of cocaine
chemically breaks down tooth enamel and causes tooth decay. However, cocaine
does often cause involuntary tooth grinding, known as bruxism, which can
deteriorate tooth enamel and lead to gingivitis. [wiki Cocaine]
Perhaps men who sleep with sluts should be judged as harshly as the sluts
themselves. I don't know. Let's call me a guy-slut. Sleeping with sluts worked out
well until one of them decided she was a Christian-slut who didn't get abortions.
I certainly regret sleeping with your mother in spite of the fact that I love the
dickens out of my daughters. The irony of that has sat heavily on my mind for
many years.
It is difficult to tell one's daughters that their mother was a slut, but obviously you
must know by now given that almost every child in the Jensen extended had a
different father. What a task to make a genealogy of such a family.
Soap operas and manipulation. I was never the object of your mother's love. I was
the object of her soap operatic manipulations and game playing.
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Your mother, Janice, had a number of customers with whom she "fell in love". Bob
Russell was the one restaurant customer I knew she had dated once. She told me
that she had a date with him on one occasion and tricked me into taking her back
to Lexington Commons to Bob's apartment. He wasn't home and later told me that
he did not have a date with Janice. We ended up at my apartment waiting for him
to return. I knew that Bob didn't have any great attraction to Janice, but I was
attracted to her body, which she gave away readily.
We know that your mother frequently picked up men she met as a waitress. Rather
than finishing school and getting a legitimate job, her goal was to marry a rich guy.
Of course, she was already married, but who would know?
Let us try to calculate how many such men she slept with in her quest to entrap
"Mr. Right". Let us assume that 80% of guys she slept with were smart enough to
use a condom when having sex with a 'strange' woman who had just picked them
up. This would mean that only 20% of her sex partners could have become fathers.
If she got pregnant when she was ovulating and that was about 10% of the month,
then add another 10% for sperm living 3 days and we can extrapolate 3 babies by 3
different guys to 15 guys she slept with who didn't have condoms and multiply that
by 5 to obtain an estimate of 75 guys total she slept with. 60 guys with condoms,
15 without condoms and 3 who got her pregnant. We don't know how many, if
only half of the men used condoms, then she only slept with 30 men. How was she
able to sleep with all of these men and "look herself in the mirror in the morning"?
We know that her mother had four children by 3 or 4 men. This set her an
example.
In June 2008, Janice spoke of Timmy Peter's dad dying as if his dad was not the
father of Shila's other children. I had heard before that her children were by
different fathers but don't know any details. We also know that Janice's magic
words were "But I loved that man." Bud Simms didn't marry her so she persisted
with falling in love with other men. Steven Vales gave her $300 for an abortion
which was not a good sign that he was about to propose marriage. I tried to get her
to sign the standard papers whereby I would provide the statutory amount of child
support and have normal paternal visitation rights. She wouldn't sign and told me
that either I must keep sleeping with her or I wouldn't get to see Janine. I call
Dana my "blackmail baby".
She was what was called "an easy lay" who was willing to go to bed with a man on
the first date. She admitted to me that she got pregnant by Steven Vales (Vails? I
have never been able to get anyone to give me the spelling and I suspect that they
might not even know it.) the first time she slept with him. That was Shawna's dad.
She was willing to go to bed with me when it wasn't really even a date with me but
a falsified "date with Bob Russell". I slept with her that first night, but didn't have
sex until a later occasion. But, we are now told, it was quite okay for her to lie
about having a date with Bob Russell because she "was in love with Don." I started
to ask her if it wasn't embarassing that Bob had not shown up. She completed my
sentence as if I was asking her "isn't it embarassing that your breasts are small."
Like the other many men that Janice seduced and tried to get pregnant by, I
hardly knew her nor did she know me very well. For her to say that she was in love
with a man she barely knew lacks credibility.
Cocaine use: A common but untrue belief is that the smoking of cocaine
chemically breaks down tooth enamel and causes tooth decay. However, cocaine
does often cause involuntary tooth grinding, known as bruxism, which can
deteriorate tooth enamel and lead to gingivitis. [wiki Cocaine]
Perhaps men who sleep with sluts should be judged as harshly as the sluts
themselves. I don't know. Let's call me a guy-slut. Sleeping with sluts worked out
well until one of them decided she was a Christian-slut who didn't get abortions.
I certainly regret sleeping with your mother in spite of the fact that I love the
dickens out of my daughters. The irony of that has sat heavily on my mind for
many years.
It is difficult to tell one's daughters that their mother was a slut, but obviously you
must know by now given that almost every child in the Jensen extended had a
different father. What a task to make a genealogy of such a family.
Soap operas and manipulation. I was never the object of your mother's love. I was
the object of her soap operatic manipulations and game playing.
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